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12-24-2007, 03:44 PM
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Rivet Master 
1975 Argosy 24
Collierville
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Christmas Spirit/ apology
Something happened to me today that made me realize that I have been messing up on this forum. I was in Chickfilet and I had my kids w/ me and had just ordered and the cashier told me my total and I realized I had left my wallet at home, dohhh. Well the lady behind me said I'll pay for it, I of course thanked her but politely refused twice and was gathering the kids to leave when she placed her hand on my arm, looked me in the eye and said please let me do this. She was looking at me in a way as to say I need to do this. I relented and a smile came to her face as she paid the cashier for our food. I realized that I needed to pay this act of simple kindness forward as maybe she had done. It also made me realize that I have been acting somewhat petty on this board by arguing with people about things that won't be changed on this board and I was probably doing it for my own benefit. This was wrong not just at Christmas time but everyday. It's one thing to debate topics but to do so only so I can feel good about winning an argument isn't right and I apologize. Merry Christmas to all.
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12-24-2007, 03:46 PM
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Rivet Master
2003 22' International CCD
Kiln
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Merry Christmas 
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12-24-2007, 03:49 PM
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Rivet Master
1983 34' Excella
1967 24' Tradewind
Little Rock
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Karma coming to you! Have a great Christmas and a wonderful 2008.
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12-24-2007, 03:56 PM
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1984 31' Airstream310
Dunsmuir
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mrmossyone,
I haven't followed the threads wherein you think may have been behaving less than perfectly. 
It shows a lot of class to apologize when you feel you've been wrong. 
Hat's off to you.
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12-24-2007, 04:01 PM
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Rivet Master
1956 22' Flying Cloud
Venice
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mrmossy,
i also haven't been following the threads you're referring to.
but i really enjoyed your story at chikfilet today and that's what it's all about, helping one another out. it's not easy admitting when you're wrong, so hats off to you.
have a merry christmas and keep that kindness coming all year long 
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12-24-2007, 04:13 PM
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2003 25' Classic
Houstatlantavegas
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Join Date: Jun 2007
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Class Act
What you do speaks so loudly....no one can hear what you say.
God Bless...
Have a wonderful Christmas
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12-24-2007, 05:31 PM
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Rivet Master
1958 22' Flying Cloud
1956 30' Sovereign of the Road
1963 16' Bambi
Southeastern Area
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12-24-2007, 06:41 PM
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4 Rivet Member 
2007 25' International CCD
Sugar Grove
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Join Date: Sep 2007
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Now, that's the Christmas spirit! Doesn't it make you want to practice that kind of sincere feelings all year long???
Happy Christmas to all..................don't you just love the Forums???
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12-25-2007, 05:53 AM
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Restorations done right
Commercial Member
1962 26' Overlander
1961 26' Overlander
Vintage Kin Owner
Currently Looking...
Baltimore
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He is referring to me.
I too have strong opinions that do not always overlap the rest of society. With so many of us participating in this forum there is sure to conflicting perspectives. Often two people can read a sentence and perceive that sentence totally different. If you are thinking that I need an apology, well my friend you ARE wrong (this time). You have nothing to apologize for. You actually have gained even more respect by thinking differently than me. The fact that you felt concerned you might have offended someone shows a sensitivity that is needed more in our society. You have nothing but love from me. I hope we can have opposing opinions again, maybe that way WE can evolve the way WE perceive things.
I wish you a joyous Christmas and hope your family has many more to come. By the way, that toy box you made is beautiful. If you are ever looking for a woodworking job, let me know.
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12-25-2007, 07:57 AM
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2 Rivet Member 
1972 29' Ambassador
Red Oak
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Merry Christmas and best wishes for a wonderful 2008!
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12-25-2007, 09:12 AM
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4 Rivet Member
1976 Argosy 24
Tempe
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Join Date: Jun 2006
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the power of DUH
Heck, the dictionary definition of "forum" has - "a public meeting place for open discussion".
How will I know about the things that are important unless everyone gets to render their opinion?
Besides, how could any one with an Argosy and a Hemi be out of place?
and if that isn't good enough - as far as I know, the first amendment has not been repealed.
A Happy Aluminum New Year to you!
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12-25-2007, 09:37 AM
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Rivet Master
2014 25' Flying Cloud
Cuddebackville
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Join Date: May 2007
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Fortunately, I'm always right so no one can ever take offense to what
I say.
Merry Christmas!
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12-25-2007, 09:43 PM
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4 Rivet Member
1972 25' Tradewind
Madison
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Join Date: Apr 2005
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Originally Posted by mrmossyone
Something happened to me today that made me realize that I have been messing up on this forum. I was in Chickfilet and I had my kids w/ me and had just ordered and the cashier told me my total and I realized I had left my wallet at home, dohhh. Well the lady behind me said I'll pay for it, I of course thanked her but politely refused twice and was gathering the kids to leave when she placed her hand on my arm, looked me in the eye and said please let me do this. She was looking at me in a way as to say I need to do this. I relented and a smile came to her face as she paid the cashier for our food. I realized that I needed to pay this act of simple kindness forward as maybe she had done. It also made me realize that I have been acting somewhat petty on this board by arguing with people about things that won't be changed on this board and I was probably doing it for my own benefit. This was wrong not just at Christmas time but everyday. It's one thing to debate topics but to do so only so I can feel good about winning an argument isn't right and I apologize. Merry Christmas to all.
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Do you work for starbucks?
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12-25-2007, 10:59 PM
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Rivet Master
1975 Argosy 24
Collierville
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Originally Posted by Smokin Camel
Do you work for starbucks?
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Uhhhh......no.
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Different strokes for different folks!
I never learned from a man who agreed with me.
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12-26-2007, 06:30 AM
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Vintage Alum. Enthusiast
1959 24' Tradewind
Phoenix
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: I currently do not own a 2nd Airstream
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What a great story and thank you for sharing. It is often during the holiday season we all hear stories that have touched our heart. We should make an effort for "paying it forward" throughout the year.
Karma to you MrMossy and have a great new year.
Brad
FF
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12-26-2007, 07:34 AM
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Rivet Master
1967 22' Safari
MILAN
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Touching story about Chikfillet! Hoping you had a Merry Christmas and sending you Good Karma for your sincere thoughts and admission. Happy Trails, Ed
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12-26-2007, 12:06 PM
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Rivet Master
1975 Argosy 24
Collierville
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Originally Posted by 62overlander
He is referring to me.
I too have strong opinions that do not always overlap the rest of society. With so many of us participating in this forum there is sure to conflicting perspectives. Often two people can read a sentence and perceive that sentence totally different. If you are thinking that I need an apology, well my friend you ARE wrong (this time). You have nothing to apologize for. You actually have gained even more respect by thinking differently than me. The fact that you felt concerned you might have offended someone shows a sensitivity that is needed more in our society. You have nothing but love from me. I hope we can have opposing opinions again, maybe that way WE can evolve the way WE perceive things.
I wish you a joyous Christmas and hope your family has many more to come. By the way, that toy box you made is beautiful. If you are ever looking for a woodworking job, let me know.
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Thanks. If we meet on the road first beer's on me....you get the rest. 
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12-26-2007, 12:07 PM
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Rivet Master
1975 Argosy 24
Collierville
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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Originally Posted by flitzwhopper
Heck, the dictionary definition of "forum" has - "a public meeting place for open discussion".
How will I know about the things that are important unless everyone gets to render their opinion?
Besides, how could any one with an Argosy and a Hemi be out of place?
and if that isn't good enough - as far as I know, the first amendment has not been repealed.
A Happy Aluminum New Year to you!
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Don't worry I'll be sharing my view often as I'm want to do.
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12-26-2007, 12:27 PM
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Rivet Master
1975 Argosy 24
Collierville
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Join Date: Oct 2007
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It wasn't necessary but thanks for all the positive responses. Happy New Year!!!!!
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