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03-20-2014, 04:58 PM
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Rivet Master
2015 30' Classic
2012 28' International
Greensboro
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 1,708
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Maggie, isn't it just HUMBLING to read the posts of all these folks who just exude wisdom, kindness, and forgiveness. The folks who post on this forum are a visible reminder of how wonderful people are -- and when you come back and read this outpouring of wisdom it will most definitely help you let the negative energy dissolve. Barry
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03-20-2014, 05:20 PM
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Rivet Master
2018 23' International
Currently Looking...
SANTA BARBARA
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Join Date: Oct 2013
Posts: 1,214
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I wish this forum had a "LIKE" button, like Facebook does. There are so many wise and kind posts on this thread, that I keep wanting to hit "LIKE."
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03-20-2014, 06:40 PM
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1 Rivet Member
Currently Looking...
Philadelphia
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Join Date: May 2013
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Dear Maggie. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I don't have a trailer of site yet but came across your tread. Sending warm thoughts & prayers your way. Michael
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03-20-2014, 08:15 PM
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3 Rivet Member
2013 27' FB International
2016 28' Land Yacht
Baton Rouge
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Join Date: Jun 2013
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What an outpouring of love for you, Maggie!
It is only the kindness that you have shared on this forum come back to you magnified 100 fold.
There is such a thing as karma! You are richly deserving of many blessings.
All will be well.
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03-20-2014, 10:28 PM
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Rivet Master
2010 27' FB Flying Cloud
Fraser Valley
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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Maggie, you have such a caravan of love and support here. I know it's hard to steer away from those potholes, a.k.a. the hypocritical relatives, but they do not matter. What matters is what you shared with Doug. That ribbon of road will never end.
Thinking of you.....
you will get through it.
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03-21-2014, 04:00 AM
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Rivet Master
2007 Interstate
Normal
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Really struggling yesterday, better today....thank you.
Heading up soon to Iowa, and it begins.
Love to you all,
Maggie
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03-21-2014, 04:55 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by weirdstuff
I wish this forum had a "LIKE" button, like Facebook does. There are so many wise and kind posts on this thread, that I keep wanting to hit "LIKE."
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There is. It is the "thanks" button. Different from Facebook, only you and the thankee will know.
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03-21-2014, 05:16 AM
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4 Rivet Member
2007 25' Safari
Fairhope
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Join Date: Jul 2011
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Thoughts and Prayers
Our thoughts and prayers go with you on your journey today. I think RangerJay wrote it perfectly: patience....tolerance...forgiveness. That sounds so much like a passage from the Sermon on the Mount.....it really struck me as kind and loving guidance offered friend to friend. Safe travels, Maggie. Tom
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2007 Safari 25' FB Twin
"If you have to go through a minefield....follow somebody"
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03-21-2014, 05:36 AM
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4 Rivet Member
2004 34' Classic S/O
Stafford
, Virginia
Join Date: Oct 2011
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Maggie, you and your family are our thoughts and prayers.
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03-21-2014, 06:03 AM
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4 Rivet Member
2012 30' Classic
Wildwood
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Join Date: Sep 2020
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Maggie,
Our prayers are with you today as you lay Doug to rest. Prayers for courage and strength to make it through this day with dignity and grace.
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03-21-2014, 06:27 AM
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Rivet Master
2012 27' Flying Cloud
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Join Date: Oct 2012
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Praying for truly amazing grace to carry you through this day and to help you focus all your energy on wonderful memories without being distracted by family members who themselves need to find a little grace in their lives. We all do.
You've done a truly beautiful job preparing for this day. May Doug rest in peace and may you have great comfort through your mourning.
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03-21-2014, 06:46 AM
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Moderator
2015 25' FB Flying Cloud
2012 23' FB Flying Cloud
2005 25' Safari
Santa Rosa Beach
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Join Date: Jul 2006
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Have a safe trip today. May the good things in your life together with Doug dominate your thoughts.
Love, SuEllyn and Brian
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2015 FC 25' FB (Lucy) with ProPride
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03-21-2014, 08:10 AM
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1 Rivet Member
1968 17' Caravel
Sellersvile
, Pennsylvania
Join Date: Dec 2013
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Very sorry to hear this tragic news and we will be praying for Doug. God Bless.
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03-21-2014, 10:28 AM
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Rivet Master
2010 27' FB Flying Cloud
Fraser Valley
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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Dealing With Phony Relatives
Maggie, a look can say more than words, and unlike words, a look can't come back to haunt you.
A few years ago I was so tired of my phony relatives, especially after spending one Christmas all alone. I couldn't take it when I bumped into one of them a few months later and he started blathering on about how we really should get together etc. I gave him a look that was the epitome of the same feelings you are dealing with now: hurt, disappointment, anger, and frankly....$crew off. He got the message and scampered away.
The phonies never bothered me again.
Stay strong, and don't be afraid to send your message via the look.
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03-21-2014, 06:52 PM
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Rivet Master
1972 31' Sovereign
Lexington
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Join Date: Feb 2009
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Maggie,
Thinking of you tonight and tomorrow. Sending prayers.
Chris & Kay
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03-21-2014, 08:51 PM
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Rivet Master
1978 Argosy Minuet 6.7 Metre
Lorain County
, Ohio
Join Date: Apr 2009
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Sending thoughts and warm energy your way during this difficult time. Loren & Mike
Sent from my DROID4 using Airstream Forums mobile app
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03-21-2014, 09:40 PM
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2 Rivet Member
1973 Argosy 26
brooksville
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Join Date: May 2013
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praying for your strength to get through the events coming and to find peace in knowing you did a great job in preserving the memory of Doug.
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03-21-2014, 11:47 PM
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3 Rivet Member
Currently Looking...
Cincinnati
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 146
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Maggie,
Think of you often throughout the day. Pray that God gives you strength and grace. Wonder how Doug's Mom is doing especially at 94. I am sure you are a blessing to all; as you have been to your many friends here. Everyone here thinks only good thoughts about you and Doug.
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03-22-2014, 11:13 AM
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Master of Universe
2008 25' Safari FB SE
Grand Junction
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Join Date: Sep 2007
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Maggie,
Having been away from the Forum for several days, I just saw your post about irritating family members. Stress can make people childish and that's irritating. Family members who act out are especially irritating because we expect a lot of our families. I doubt anyone gets the family they wish they had, but some of us have an excess of jerks in our families. I don't know your exact situation, but it seems like family drama (or melodrama) entered a couple of days ago.
Such things are not surprising when you are as far from events as I am, but they always seem a surprise when I'm in the middle of things. I think—why can't they just can it or go away? But they don't and it is a test for, as Jay said, forgiveness. I have plenty of jerks in my family, but my wife's makes up for it in kindness and love. Try to focus on those who offer unconditional love. If you falter in being kind to the jerks, so what? You have more important things to do that worry about them.
I think the funeral is today. I trust you'll get through it, perhaps like a sleepwalker at times, but I'm sure you'll make as best you can—and as best you can is all anyone can do.
In a few days when the friends and relatives are gone and the flowers have wilted, that will be the time for more introspection, adjustment and moving through grief. I trust you will move through that too. Some days will suck, some will be good. I'm sure you can count on support here.
Gene
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The Airstream is sold; a 2016 Nash 24M replaced it.
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03-22-2014, 07:23 PM
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Rivet Master
2007 Interstate
Normal
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 18,090
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Well, it's over and I survived.
We had a lovely, well-attended visitation last night, a short visitation prior to the processional to the little church today, then a simple service and internment. A childhood friend of Doug's gave a eulogy and the niece-in-law sang 3 hymns, a cappella. Short and sweet. The church was perfect, and Doug is now buried under a huge pine tree, next to his Dad.
I could imagine him smiling.
Eugene Engel, the narrator on the video about Grace Hill Moravian Church that was posted here, attended the funeral. Knew Doug's 96 year old mom since they were children. She recognized him, he recognized her, they hugged and said each others name. Both of them deaf as posts, very touching.
No harsh words exchanged, didn't even have to give "the look". Bad behavior seemed to have dissipated in the last couple of days....perhaps some timely self-reflection, but at any rate everyone stepped up.
Have a nice chunk of donations to FaithWorks, too.
My kids are here with me til tomorrow. Going to visit the cemetery in the am, then head home. So much still to do.
He was a good, kind man, and I'm going to miss him.
Thank you all, again, so much. You helped me get through an unbearable situation.
XO Maggie
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