This is a philosophical quandry.
To me, the difference between being organized and being OCD is how it affects your life and your family's life.
Organized - accomplishes things: you save money, you save time, you save frustration and it enhances the quality of your life and your family's. It frees you to pursue goals, grow personally and/or professionally.
OCD - is a never achievable goal. "Ve Vill haf Order Here" seems to be the undercurrent of every act and conversation. If your kids have their beds torn apart four or five times until they achieve "military mitered corners, bounce a quarter off the blankets" - you're OCD.
You're organized. It's a trait that is probably native to your personality type and you probably wonder how others can survive without it - it isn't a bad thing until it becomes the goal rather than a tool to achive better goals. Go in peace. The mess has ended.
Paula