So an update to this, I dryed the windows as well as possible with a hairdryer and put a few layers of reflextex against that window, then sealed with a plastic heat shrink kit and aluminum tape. This eliminated the moisture issue. I left the other rear pano window with just plastic seal (no reflextex) and it's also not had any condensation form behind the plastic. The issue with these windows was definitely that I sleep on my side, and my breath would blow under the curtain while I slept, but other than that there was no air circulation behind the curtain, so condensation really built up. Plastic keeps my breath off those windows, no condensation, no problem.
I also leave the shower exhaust fan on 24/7, and obviously the oven fan while cooking.
The front windows occasionally get a bit of condensation when cooking or showering, but are designed so it runs down to the channel and out a weep hole to outside.
The woodstove exhausts so much air and outputs so much heat that there are no humidity issues while it's running.
Been in the teens at night for approaching a month now, so far so good