kayt, just to be sure you are following along, what we are saying is to buy a small inverter like
this 200w unit. You would then plug that into the
12V socket by your stereo. You really could use that to charge your laptop, phone, and tablet.
(If you have a car charger for your phone and tablet that you can plug directly into the
12V socket, you can do that because it will be a little more efficient)
If you wanted a larger inverter to power additional items, you'll have to step up to one that gets hard wired directly to your batteries. This is the only part that would be complicated, and frankly it's not that complicated if you are somewhat mechanically inclined and can read directions. Or have someone local that can help. An inverter like that would typically be in the 600W to 1000W range. I wouldn't go much larger with the stock battery bank.