I suppose it could be an issue with the main filler valve, but it's hard to know without being there. I recommend that you take it to a full-service propane outfit, not just to a filler. Full-service places are ones that do work of this kind. In many states (including mine), mere fillers are not permitted to do ANYTHING beyond, well, just filling.
And, no, this is not a common problem. These tanks and associated valves are designed for safety and use, in your case (that is, a fixed-mount horizontal cylinder for motorhomes) with specs from the American Society of Mechanical Engineers (ASME). I don't know what companies actually produce the tanks and valves that Airstream installs, but they'll be ASME certified, in any event.
Lynn