My '66 Safari has a small access panel just behind the curbside leg of the A-frame. The umbilical cord wiring connects to the trailer wiring at that point. I changed mine to a 7-pin because I had several failures of the converters I was using to connect the old plug to my truck.
I agree with what has been said above that it is necessary to identify each wire. Color codes have changed. Use a meter to identify the
12v. line and the ground. Label and isolate those. Then power each of the other wires from a
12v. source and see what happens. Lights are obvious, and you should be able to hear the brakes engage.
Also, I find 7-pin connector wiring confusing because you're always dealing with a mirror image of something, and I'm not good at that kind of thinking. E-trailer.com has a good picture of both ends of a 7-pin on their website. I find it best to work with a printout of that close at hand and a helper to keep me doing things right.