Summit Racing to the rescue!
Got the remaining four wheels--after I bought one from a local tire store and tested it for fit--it took them 2 weeks to order. Summit had them to me in e days for $60 less/wheel. (PN AEW-0589-7766) Also got 4 stainless steel closed end center caps (AEW-ACC311809) which fit perfectly.
I ended up using lugs by Gorilla. Chrome plated. 1.4" closed end. The bulge acorn style in 3/4" hex worked well. (GOR-41187) I can get a standard socket around them without any trouble. Still a no-go with the impact socket as well as a standard 4-way lug wrench. I also carry a 1/2" socket and torque wrench, so that should be fine. Think of it as a theft deterrent!
For valve stems I found chrome bolt in all metal stems. (SUM-G1857)
Dallas Peak, MD 'That 70's Guy!'
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