My dictionary defines ilk as "family, class, or kind" as the first definition.
Yes the Equal-i-zer brand hitch is much better than the EAZ lift in several respects. For one, it has a very competent and capable sway control built into its design whereas the EAZ lift, as is, is only a weight distributing or load leveling hitch.
As I mentioned, be very careful to know what product you are thinking about when you see "equalizer." I try to be very careful about brand names and use Equal-i-zer to refer to a specific brand hitch, avoid using equalizer as a generic term for load leveling hitches when I mean EAZ Lift or its ilk.
Most folks start with an EAZ or similar hitch and then add a friction bar. If that doesn't quite ring their bells, they often swap out the friction bars for a Reese Dual Cam add-on.
A good number of folks who 'been there, done that' and need a new hitch but are a bit concerned about expense, will pick up an Equal-i-zer.
And a small number, relatively speaking, who have no qualms about spending $3000 or so, go for the Hensley.
An even smaller number seem to go the Pullrite route, maybe because it can be had for about half the cost of a Hensly.
But no offense meant and I am sorry if my use of dictionary vocabulary sparks such.
And thanks for your compliment!