My dear wife can't ever give clear verbal directions. She often says "go right" when she means "go left", and her 12" can often be as much as a yard.
However, after about 5 years of giving me directions to help with hitching up, I'll have to give her credit. Doggone, she is actually getting pretty good!
We almost always hitch up in the daytime, and our communication is exclusively done via her hand signals that I look at in my side view mirror.
When Candie, (the wife), is with me she and I work well toghether. We have been towing Argosys and Airstreams since we first met 18 years ago.
She does an excellent job in backing me up! It only took 17 years for her to master it!
I end up doing it myself....too much stress otherwise. I don't know what it is that becomes so irritating about getting lined up wrong. This needs professional analysis, in my opinion.
My wife has no idea how long a foot is, or an inch, etc. I hitch it myself. I do the exact process that Erwin described, but it usually takes me 2 or 3 tries before I get things aligned properly. I do not have a mirror or other cool devices, yet.
I've got the hookup part down pretty good. Usually quicker if I do it myself. I line up the center of my bedliner with the rivets on the propane cover. Once I get reasonably close I check alignment and distance. Then I leave the drivers door of the truck open and mark the edge of it against a reference point on the ground. Back up until the door edge is over the reference point and drop the trailer on the ball.
Now, when it comes to parking the trailer... My wife likes to tell me to "move the trailer over", "watch out for the tree", "it's crooked". I keep working on her to give me reference points (driver's left, driver's right...). We use the radio's but I am still working with her to get her to hold the transmit button down before she starts talking...
-Alden
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1981 31' Excella
2005 Dodge Ram 3500 Diesel
(No it doesn't have a HEMI in it)
The problem I had was understanding my wife's signals. Was I too far left or an illegal receiver downfield? We always got it close enough when we had a small tent trailer (we could wheel it around some). When we got the Airstream I bought one of these: http://www.campingworld.com/browse/s...m?skunum=21332
It makes the ride home much more enjoyable!
One of my favorite campground activities is surreptitiously watching folks parks. I know I shouldn't watch but just so dang entertaining! Pulling a lawn chair over to the event and popping open a cold one would complete the experience but whenever I suggest it, I'm told in horror by my saner than I husband, that it's just not done. I am continually amazed by "parking helpers" who fail to stand where they can be seen in the drivers mirrors. Hanging head in shame now.......
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77 Argosy Minuet, 6 metre
77 Argosy 24, Rear door
AIR 3181, WBCCI/VAC # 5575
What is the greatest cause for divorces amoung Airstream owners????????
Parking "misguiders".
Turn this way, no turn that way, has not quite made it to Mr. Websters dictonary, along with "that rock wasn't there a minute ago", and "where in the devil did that tree come from?"
One of my favorite campground activities is surreptitiously watching folks parks. I know I shouldn't watch but just so dang entertaining! Pulling a lawn chair over to the event and popping open a cold one would complete the experience but whenever I suggest it, I'm told in horror by my saner than I husband, that it's just not done. I am continually amazed by "parking helpers" who fail to stand where they can be seen in the drivers mirrors. Hanging head in shame now.......
Gee Janet...maybe we need to camp together...my wife and your hubby can hide out and pretend they don't know us...I'll bring the cooler if you have chairs
Aaron
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....so many Airstreams....so little time...
WBCCI #2449 AIR #2495
Why are we in this basket...and where are we going
Having bought the convex mirror product at Camping World I was frustrated with getting it to stay mounted on the back of my Suburban (with barn doors). The suction cup method was not satisfactory. Having read the posts in this string about mounting mirrors to the propane tank cover lead me to merely mount the convex mirror "legs" with screws into a sufficiently wide piece of plywood (1' x 2 1/2') and then temporarily place it on top of the propane trank cover. Granted it does not fold up into a small configuration anymore but it works.
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Mark
1984 31' Excella, mid bath, king size bed
1998 Chevrolet Suburban K2500, 7.4L/454 c.i., 4WD, Pullrite Hitch
AIR No. 2375
There are two rivets on the propane tank cover that I can see through the rear view mirror in my barn door suburban. I got it lined up right, but did not drop the hitch down, then drew two 2 inch diameter circles on the outside back windows of the 'burb where I thought the rivets would appear to be centered in. I jumped back in the cab, checked the actual alignment, jumped out and corrected it a couple of times until I had it perfect, then lowered the trailer and successfully got the ball locked on, THEN I DREW THE CIRCLES ON THE INSIDE OF THE WINDOW and wiped them off of the outside. This actually works for both left and right and distance. The "eyes" look crosseyed if I'm too far away.
I'm a single woman in my 50's, and lots of nice men offer to hitch it for me or help me (usually a "God help me" experience). Then they just drop their jaws because I can often back up and drop the hitch on in one try. With the smoked glass you can't see my black magic marker circles from the outside. I get the "I wish my wife was coordinated enough to to that" has led me to confess my guilty little secret to more than one....
PS I like the gooseneck mirror idea too. If you can't see the hitch in the mirror because the trailer is in the shade put a flashlight on the A-frame pointing at the ball.