Hi Nightwind15. We've recently covered this topic. Let's see what member response you get. And I'll look up a recent thread and post it here.
Nightwind, I removed your email from the post because spammers run automated programs that harvest email addresses from every page on the internet. And then you'd find yourself on the receiving end of too many deals too good to be true. I do this to protect our members and this site's reputation.
You can subscribe to threads (User CP on top menu bar, use 'Edit Options' to go to the 'Messaging & Notification' box). Then you will get an email when somebody has posted to your thread. Or else members can click your username to pull down a menu that allows private messaging through the forums -- and you'll also receive an email when that happens. I love these very effective communication tools.