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Originally Posted by flyboy78704
Where can I find a 3.5 inch stem to stem shower faucet replacement for a 1964
I looked everywhere for one of these faucets when mine went bad in 1995. At that time, before so many things became available on the Internet, I couldn't locate anything even vaguely similar. When I was sourcing materials for the refurbishment project on my 1920s bungalow, I found a very similar faucet design with the needed diverter that you can find at this link
I purchased most of the faucet sets for my refurbishment from the company above, and have been very pleased with their quality.
Good luck with your project!