16 Ft Bambi Questions - About to pull the trigger

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First of all I must say I'm excited.. We are about to purchase a 2007 16Ft Bambi and we just need some input prior to making the "Big decision".. BTW this will be our first RV.. so we are Bambi Virgins & RV newbies.. a double wammy!

Ok Fear #1..

Since the Bambi only has a combined Black/Grey tank, has actual 16ft Bambi owners had a problem when Boondocking.. I've read were some say they would never consider it, but they don't own one.. I also know that it's based on how one does the Boondocking and for how long.. Our guess the longest dry camping we will probably do is 5-6 days.. After that time my wife will kill me..and the dog will eat my carcass..

We can be resolute by having pan in the sink to capture the dish water and toss it outside and be mindful of the showering.. But the idea is to "have fun" and not worry that the black water will back-up into the trailer..


Fear #2..

Our tow vehicle which is a 2008 Highlander capable of towing 5000#, and I have read articles/reviews on it towing a 4020# boat w/tongue of 380# with basically no problems.. So are we thinking too "small" and the 19ft with a GVWR of 4500# & Dry of 3680# might be Ok?

We live outside SF Bay Area and always go to Yosemite & Tahoe. Some elevations to 8,000 ft.. Of course we want to go everywhere with the Bambi.. and we will name it!

Otherwise we are absolutely good to go.. and just hearing so real comments on the 16ft Bambi users would go a long way...

Thanks so much for any help as we have to make a decision by Tuesday!!