Rather than starting a new thread I'm bumping this one and hoping to get it back on track per the OP's request (while interesting, the PP/HA hitch weight discussion was not the original point).
In that regard, I've also read the entire thread and it looks rare to find anyone with over
1500 lbs worth of "stuff" in their trailer, including water. I have a 30' FC Bunk that I won't be able to fully load and weigh for some time. Trying to figure out what the real weight loaded will be. If I recall correctly my dry weight is around 6400 lbs. The GVWR is 8800 lbs.
I had been basing my presumed weight on 8800 lbs (which seems prudent), but that might be way overkill.
Maybe the thread can continue with dry weight (per the mfr sticker on the trailer), wet weight as measured, and tongue weight? Thanks.