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Old 06-12-2019, 07:43 AM   #1
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We’re trying to build a society here!

Recent posts about some inconsiderate buffoon dumping his black tanks in a WalMart parking lot, an RV product vendor defacing national monuments, visitors to national parks injuring animals, complaints about excessively loud music at campgrounds, and other posts about similar behaviors made me want to start this topic.

Two things I’ve noticed exponentially more frequently since I began towing my trailer 6 years ago - first, the number of people holding their phone to their head while driving or actually texting while driving - and second, the incredibly selfish way people drive to save themselves 3 seconds while putting everyone else at risk. Drive in the right hand lane of a highway and at every on ramp - even those with clear YIELD signs, people blow right through them to shave 3 seconds off their commute because they’re more important than everyone else trying to do the same thing. If you’re in a bit of a traffic jam, you’ll see it too - they’ll enter the on ramp and ride up the narrowing ramp to pass 10 cars before sliding in - or, if you’re backed up to exit - some self-important/self-centered mug will come zooming across from the far left lane to cut off the 50 cars waiting in a jam to exit the highway so he can get off ahead of them without waiting.

These are just some examples. There are millions of them. Selfish, self-absorbed, self-centered, unthinking, uncaring individuals who believe the world revolves around them - whatever they want to do is what matters - and if it offends anyone else, or harms anyone or anything else, tough darts....

When did we lose empathy?

When did we lose the sense of community?

When did we decide to ignore the sense of shame for being a jerk and turn it in to some false badge of honor?

Why did we forget the golden rule?

DW has an awesome saying when she sees this kind of behavior - hey - we’re trying to build a society here!

What irks you and what suggestions do you have for building a better society starting with our highways, campgrounds, and national parks?
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Old 06-12-2019, 08:12 AM   #2
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Old 06-12-2019, 09:53 AM   #3
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My theory: entitlement is the issue.
People expect movies and television for free, free food if the order took a little long, roads, schools and public services but no taxes, and on and on.
"The world according to phone" means the entire world revolves around the person holding said phone.

I've got this painted in my rig: "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness," the quote continues in Mark Twain's Innocents Abroad, "and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men [people] and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime."

The phone is a corner. The U.S. can be a corner (people need to travel internationally), but hopping in an Airstream and seeing this big, amazing country of ours is a great start, especially if you're taking the time to interact (and empathize) with the locals.
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Old 06-12-2019, 10:54 AM   #4
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It will get worse

It started in 1980. And it's going to get worse. A lot worse. Just watch people ,they Don't have a Clue whats going on around them. If they get there face out of there phone it would be a good start.
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Old 06-12-2019, 11:00 AM   #5
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There was a study done a number of years ago, that focused on commuter driving practices. The consensus was that some commuters compulsively must keep moving. They change lanes at every opportunity, tailgate, and in the absolute worst cases, will roll down the shoulder, exit and merge on the entry.

There are also studies on personality type that come to various conclusions, but generally identify folks as "wanting to just get along", "wanting to get things done", "wanting to communicate", and "wanting to analyze to get it right". Stress shifts the tendency most folks have prevalent in their lives. A commute certainly builds stress and could move folks to their most extreme behavior state.

There is also the factor of ignorance. Some folks do not understand that it is unlikely to improve their commute time by changing lanes and taking chances. Some folks do not understand right of way rules. Others don't understand that traffic moves more consistently if merging is done in a smooth zipper like fashion. Others just have poor driving skills, because they have never had much training.

But the worst factor is - it does not apply to me ....... I'm late for my job and can't get fired; it is only a short call and I have to take it - it's my boss, kid, girl friend; I'm next; I can beat that driver if I floor it; that Lux will let my junker in; and .............. whatever. The more we see it done ... speeding, barging, lane changes, talking on the phone, texting ...... the more we think it's OK for us to do that poor behavior. A study found that if 10-20% of folks do not follow the law, it's not enforceable.

How do I know? A 100 mile a day commute teaches you a lot about your behavior and that of others. Using a car pool can teach you even more. Attending a senior driver's education course can point out things you learned in driver's education and forgot through the years. However, the reduction of stress with retirement moves one to a completely different perspective. It really does.

Drive safe and find a way to enjoy the experience or use your back porch more. Pat
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. . . it's going to get worse. A lot worse.
. . .
That about covers it IMO.

Forgive the broad brush . . . but it appears to these eyes that the world is having a mass nervous breakdown, with a distinct overtone of religious zealotry fueling most of the polarization.

"Mo' people, mo' problems."

. . . fueled by fear . . . and anger . . .



One need not understand the physics of tidal action to see the water rising, and to get out of the way . . .

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Point well taken, but I can’t ignore the closing quote:

“The zipper merge is going to be this century's conversion to the metric system in the '70s. Great idea, made perfect sense, and was dead on arrival.”
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That is exactly the phrase I noticed!

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Yea, I was one of those commuters. Get out of my WAY!!!! Two hours in, three hours back in SF Bay area. For seven years. I finally figured out what was causing it.
Work.
Ya gotta stop working.
Man, no job, no schedule, no commute. I am a 55 all day warrior. Birds sing, flowers bloom, the sky is blue - I had no idea.
That work stuff, they have to do away with it.
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Yea, I was one of those commuters. Get out of my WAY!!!! Two hours in, three hours back in SF Bay area. For seven years. I finally figured out what was causing it.
Work.
Ya gotta stop working.
Man, no job, no schedule, no commute. I am a 55 all day warrior. Birds sing, flowers bloom, the sky is blue - I had no idea.
That work stuff, they have to do away with it.
Acheron, you are correct. No more Rush Hour (or two or three). Does Morristown even have a "rush 15 minutes"?
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That about covers it IMO.

Forgive the broad brush . . . but it appears to these eyes that the world is having a mass nervous breakdown, with a distinct overtone of religious zealotry fueling most of the polarization.

"Mo' people, mo' problems."

. . . fueled by fear . . . and anger . . .



One need not understand the physics of tidal action to see the water rising, and to get out of the way . . .

Maybe if you watch the media. But out in the working world, at lest in mine, things are fine.
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It started in 1980. And it's going to get worse. A lot worse. Just watch people ,they Don't have a Clue whats going on around them. If they get there face out of there phone it would be a good start.
I don't disagree that things are different now than they were back when; but 1980 is a fairly specific time stamp for a perceived societal change.

What was the precipitating 1980 event?
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Point well taken, but I can’t ignore the closing quote:

“The zipper merge is going to be this century's conversion to the metric system in the '70s. Great idea, made perfect sense, and was dead on arrival.”
People need to learn to press the gas when merging instead of trying to use their blinker to make a gap in traffic.
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